Wednesday, May 13, 2009

RELATIONSHIP BETWEEN MEN & WOMEN 1

Human beings have been created in the form of two sexes and God has put the tendency toward the opposite sex in their nature, human's character, convention of society and of course Islam knows this desire as the most natural axiom of the instinct.
The question is, how should be the relationship between opposite sexes before marriage?
There are two ideas about this matter:
1- idea of Compulsion: it says that the relationship between opposite sexes must be according to necessity i.e. so long as there is no urgency, we should avoid the relationship.
2-idea of commixture: according to this opinion, men and women could relate to each other with regard to canonical standards, as two human beings not as opposite sexes they can participate in scientific conversations with each other and so on, with regard to canonicals.
Now lets see what's the basis of these ideas,
Followers of idea of Compulsion ratiocinate that man and woman are like fire and cotton so their proximity is dangerous, also they exemplify Joseph, the prophet, who couldn't resist against the woman,with that much of chastity(as a prophet) and prayed for the help of God.
So the first group concludes that the approximation is completely dangerous and we must avoid the unnecessary relationships.
What does Commixture idea say?
It says human being is greedy to what ever is forbidden, so if we want to have a safe
society we must reduce the sensitivity.
And Islam's opinion:
TO BE CONTINUED…
think well..
nice time..

5 comments:

Zahra said...

Hello,

How are you? It was good to hear from you again. Thanks for the comment. I am in the forth semester. I am working on my thesis. I like the topic very much, u know. Just plan to defend it before the beginning of the next autumn. Indeed, MA program brings with itself its own problems and hassles.Keep me in your prayers.

May Allah help you achieve all your dreams and wishes.

Take care,

Zahra

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